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If you’re currently in a relationship how long have you been dating/married/etc? How did you meet? If you’re not what is your ideal relationship like and what do you look for in a s/o? 

Honestly my ideal relationship would be one built on friendship, honesty and communication. I want to wait until marriage for sex. Not for religious reasons, but because well, I’m tired of men treating me like a sex object. I get on social networking sites to make friends, promote Radio Hybrid, not to be asked for nude pics, cam shows or to have cyber/phone sex with these strange men that are sometimes as old as 60. (My father by the way is 63 gross!) On top of all of that, is that I am a sexual abuse/assault survivor and I want to make damn sure that I’m respected as a person, as a woman, and as someone that could be the mother of their children, before I get naked with them. Waiting also cuts the chances of STD’s and unwanted pregnancy 100% out of the picture.

I basically want to fall in love with my best friend, someone who will accept me all the time and not just some of the time. You can only have sex what 1-2 hours a night? ¹ What are you going to do with the other 22-23 hours of the day? I want someone who is smart, funny, sexy, romantic, likes to cuddle and isn’t afraid to show affection in public, like a quick kiss, hug or hand holding. Someone who isn’t going to be afraid to be seen with me (before and after gastric bypass.)

That’s another thing, gastric bypass is unkind to the human body. Sure it helps you get rid of the weight, but all that excess skin? Not for the faint of heart. I’m ready to go through this journey, and because right now I’m single, and childless, it makes sense to do it now. If they can’t accept ALL of me, then they can’t have me. I have a past and they need to understand that I wasn’t always the good little girl that I have become. I used to be a rebel, a wild child so to speak and I do not want to go through that again.

I also do not want a cheater. Once a cheater always a cheater. They need to be happy enough with themselves, and their jobs/future that they can settle down and NOT cheat.

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I like this book a lot, except that Anita is very over sexual in this book, it seems like she’s having sex with everyone. Sure there are reasons but still.

 This is a book that I WANT to read really bad. I know people that have read this book and my organization is supposedly in it..

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EdenFantasys is a wonderful website, that not only offers a wide variety of sex toys, vibrators, and couples toys. Their books, and games are fantastic for fantasy play even if you are a bit vanilla. One thing that really sets this website apart from anything else I’ve ever seen is that EdenFantasys offers a forum, magazine called SexIs which offers a wide variety of topics including TheBlogess who writes a humor column that is sexy and sultry with a kick. The post about Vagina hair is hilarious, well written, and something I could see myself asking people.

Another thing that really excites me about this website is that when you click the sex toy, product, anything there is a review list and a rating system which helps you find just the right toy. If you like intense toys you can search for toys that have a high vroom speed. There is also a sound rating system so if you don’t like toys that sound like a buzzing bee, you can leave that out of the search. They also have a wide variety of sex toy cleaners which is nice, and even have some kinkier products and kits that would make any couple salivate in anticipation, should they be into that type of thing.

EdanFantasys is a great way to have a good time along, or with your S.O. There are books like The Bisexual’s Guide to the Universe but if you’re or if you’re having some solo fun and are not comfortable with having a porn collection I suggest the Naughty Stories from A-Z. Get your favorite toy like a bullet and some good lube and get your self lovin fun on. Cause we all like a little fun now and then don’t we? With Edanfantasys.com you can. The web site is easy to use and with new products coming out all the time its refreshing to know that you’ll never be bored. I know I’m going to be looking into some lube asap myself.

I really don’t have any regrets. Everything that has happened to me, its happened for a reason. I believe that whole heartedly. The one thing I think I would do over is loosing my virginity at 16. I wasn’t in love with the guy, he was just there. I was a rebellious teenager who had been told her entire life, don’t do this, don’t do that. I got tried of it. I partied it up and the guy I’d had a crush on. I didn’t want a relationship. I just wanted to loose the V-card. I looked at it all wrong. I was rumored in high school to be a slut when I’d only slept with a few people I cared about. Yes I cared about the guy I lost my virginity too, but I wasn’t in love. And that’s what I regret. I regret giving in myself to someone who I wasn’t in love with. Being a virgin at any age is a HUGE accomplishment today’s world. Its does not by any means make you undesirable. It makes you smart, and respectful enough of your body and of yourself to know what’s right for you. Congrats. My do over? I wish I had known myself a little better instead of using it as a tool to rebel against the Mormon church. Having the self esteem problems that I do, its taken a very long time for me to learn self respect and that I know now. I think becoming a witch and practicing the way I do. I literally become the Goddess incarnate, I do the work, but she allows it so. I felt very underpowered with the Christian faiths. At least the Mormon faith. A woman can’t hold the priesthood, therefor can’t heal.. etc etc etc. In a way doing what I did the way I did it was me taking back my power, but I did it wrong. I should have taken back my power in a way that said more ‘I know myself well enough to know when I’m ready. Sure I’m ready now, but its my choice to either loose it now or keep it around.’ Does that make sense? I don’t regret the act itself. I I do however wish that I’d learned of myself a lot better.

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